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Subject: Re: [nosdiet] Re: new to diet and group
From: Reinhard Engels
Date: Wed, 22 Oct 2003 10:02:55 -0700 (PDT)
    
Hi Louann,

The idea is you strictly avoid snacks, sweets and
seconds during the week. On S-days, these rules become
mere suggestions (the *sometimes* clause). 

I've found that the best way to keep s-days under
control is to plan ahead and get a limited quantity of
something I really love. My sweet tooth or whatever
will be placated, and by rewarding myself I preempt
resentment eating. Eating a *bowl* of ice cream as a
reward, because you like yourself, is not only more
pleasurable than, but can also prevent you from,
eating a *gallon* of ice cream in revenge, because you
hate yourself. And as I mentioned, it helps if the ice
cream is really good.

But I'd recommend staying focused on non-s days for
the first few weeks. Once you have those habits down
the weekends become much more tractable.

Reinhard
--- Louann <gobuxs@...> wrote:
> Thanks for the welcome ! Well, today is my first
> day. I've done breakfast and lunch ok. I do have a
> question though.How hard is it to have sweets on
> weekends and not go crazy with it ? Does te methodof
> only what you can get on a plate hold true for
> weekends ? This seems to be the way we ought to be
> eating anyways, so I'm glad I ran across this plan
> and group. Warmly, Louann
> 
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